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"The Last Word on Relationships"
"But shun foolish controversies and genealogies and strifes and disputes
about the law for they are unprofitable and worthless. Reject a factious man
after a first and second warning, knowing that such a man is perverted and is
sinning being self-condemned. When I send Artemas or Tychicus to you, make
every effort to come to me at Nicopolis for I have decided to spend the winter
there. And diligently help Zenas the lawyer and Apollos on their way so that
nothing is lacking for them. And let our people also learn to engage in good
deeds to make pressing needs that they may not be unfruitful. All who are
with me greet you. Greet those who love us in the faith. Grace be with you
all."
If I was the leader responsible for many church congregations as Paul
was for there were many cities and many congregations on the island of Crete,
if I was responsible to lead and guide and direct and equip a young man to
oversee those young and fragile churches, if I was responsible to strengthen a
church in the midst of a very violently pagan culture, if I had the
responsibility to arm them against false teachers and ungodliness and
confusion and evil authority, if I had the task of trying to lead them to
purity and holiness and virtue and maturity, if it was my responsibility to
make sure that they were insulated from the evil of the world around them
while at the same time reaching that evil world with the gospel of Jesus
Christ, if all of that was my task I think I would have written a longer
letter. I might have written a book. I might have written many books. And
it amazes me that with all of that as responsibility, the Apostle Paul has
wrapped this whole thing up in three chapters, brief chapters at best.
He was so brief and yet he was so direct. And he focused on the needful
matters. And again this demonstrates the mind of the Spirit of God who with
an economy of words can say everything that needs to be said. As I told you
at the very beginning when we started this study many many months ago, this is
a...this is a condensed epistle and when you mix it with the water of exegesis
it begins to expand and expand and expand and it's taken us months to go
through this, to expose ourselves to the almost unending riches that are found
here.
But if we were to sum up this whole epistle in just one statement we
would probably have to select the statement in chapter 2 and verse 10 where
the Apostle Paul says, "The purpose of believers living is to show all good
faith so that they may adorn the doctrine of God our Savior in every respect."
While directed particularly at those who are bondslaves, it certainly captures in one
statement the essence of responsibility for every believer within the church
and that is that we are to so live that the world can see that our God saves
sinners. The supreme responsibility is to adorn the teaching of Scripture
about God's saving power by demonstrating what saved lives look like. We are
to live so that the Word of God is not dishonored. We are to live so that the
critics of the Christian faith are silenced because they have nothing to say
negatively about us. We are to live so that that teaching which says God
saves sinners from their sin is made visibly verifiable by our lives.
So really this is an evangelistic letter, it is telling the church how
to win the world and it wins the world around it by its own purity. And so
the greatest teaching on evangelism is teaching on holiness and virtue and
integrity and purity and honesty in Christian living. If the church is to
effect the lost world but be unaffected by it, it pursues holiness which keeps
it pure and which gives it its impact in terms of its testimony.
Now just boiling that concept down it basically comes down in this
epistle to relationships...relationships. In chapter 1 you have the
relationship that is necessary between the people and their God and that is
going to be directed and led by the appropriate Christian leadership. The
Apostle Paul says in chapter 1 that it is crucial to the life sustenance and
testimony of the church that it have elders who are above reproach, one-woman
men with believing children, not accused of dissipation or rebellion,
overseers who are above reproach as God's steward, not self-willed, quick
tempered, not addicted to wine or pugnacious, not fond of sorted gain but
hospitable, loving what is good, sensible, just, devout, self-controlled, men
who hold fast the faithful Word in accordance with the teaching who are able
both to exhort in sound doctrine and refute those who contradict. The point
is godly virtuous men who set the example of how everyone in the church is to
be related to God. That's the essence of it.
Chapter 1 is concerned about the relationship of the people in the
church to the Lord of the church. And it demands godly leadership unlike much
of the false teachers that surrounded the church who are described, as we
shall see later in the second half of chapter 1. Chapter 1 then really
focuses on the church's relationship to the Lord as modeled and exemplified in
its leadership. Chapter 2 then talks about relationships among believers with
each other. Chapter 3 talks about the relationship that believers have with
the unregenerate society in which they live. Those three crucial areas of
relationship between us and God, between us and us, and between us and them on
the outside. All of that has been covered with the genius of the Holy Spirit
in these three brief chapters. But now as we come to the final section which
I just read to you, we have Paul's few closing comments. And really, you know
what it is? It's the last word on relationships. If I could title the
message, that's what I would title it...the last word on relationships. Paul
is going to say his final comments with regard to the important relationships
in the life of the church that lead to effective testimony.
Now I've learned a few things just by hanging around long enough to get
old or older. I've learned some things by listening to people and kind of
walking through life and being a part of the ups and downs of their life. And
one of the things that I've learned in my years of many many conversations
that the Lord has allowed me to be involved in is usually when you're having a
conversation with someone and they come to you and approach you and have
something to share with you that's really on their heart, they will filter
through some important things but generally speaking the last thing is of
greatest concern. So now you know if you come to have a conversation with me
I'll be listening intently for the last thing you say. I have learned that
much of what comes first is sort of setting you up for the kill which whatever
is going to be comes last in the conversation. And it's not a bad ploy, I
think it's one that we find even used often in Scripture by the writers of
Scripture. Certainly Paul has done that. He frequently starts off with some
ingratiating amenities and then comes to the main point.
If I may, I would like to suggest to you that you will learn to be a
good listener when you learn that lesson because it will keep you tuned in to
the end. Sometimes people take a long time getting to the end and maybe
listening becomes more difficult as the conversation lengthens but it's
important for you to hang in there because until they get to the end you
probably haven't heard what's most important. Can we give Paul the benefit of
the doubt here and assume that maybe something like that is working in his own
heart as he closes out this letter? He has had some crucial things to say,
some preeminent things to say, certainly some eternally important things to
say but he really isn't done until he's done. And he has a few last words that
he wants to leave, sort of the final very practical, very personal and very
significant ending to this wonderful letter. The last word on relationships
as Paul closes out his teaching to this church, these churches really on Crete
who are going to have to live as God's children in the wicked and perverse
world where they're to shine as lights holding forth the Word of life.
As he does give us the last word on relationships, he does it in four
distinct categories. The last word on relationships with false leaders, with
factious people, with fellow servants and with faithful friends. They're the
four groups that I see identified in these final wonderful verses.
Let's hear his last word on false teachers. Verse 9, "But shun foolish
controversies and genealogies and strife and disputes about the law for
they're unprofitable and worthless." Now the Cretan Christians had been over-
exposed to a number of men who said they represented the Lord, they said they
were His servants, called, ordained, set apart. They said they were the
bearers of divine truth but they were liars. In fact, that conflict that they
were having with false teachers was creating so much chaos and so much
confusion that it generated the very reason for which Paul calls on Titus,
chapter 1 verse 5, to appoint elders in every city. The church needs strong
spiritual leadership. And in verse 9 he says they must be men who hold fast
to the faithful Word in accordance with the teaching, the revealed content of
divine truth and they're able to wield that truth both for exhortation and
sound doctrine and refutation against those who contradict. Godly pastors,
godly elders, godly leaders are needed as defenders and protectors of the
purity of the doctrine of the church. If the church is going to have any
witness in the world, it must maintain pure doctrine, pure doctrine being the
foundation for pure living and so it is crucial that these false teachers be
confronted and dealt with and the church be insulated from them.
You will notice in verse 10 that there is a rather lengthy discussion of
them indicating that they were a formidable group. He says there are many
rebellious men, empty talkers and deceivers, specially those of the
circumcision. Rebellious indeed, not willing to be under biblical or divine
authority. Empty talkers, they are fluent know-nothings. They are deceivers
leading others into error, particularly this group of them was identified with
self-righteous Jewish legalism. They were probably another of the group known
as the Judaizers with which Paul deals in Galatians chapter 2. They were
going around espousing that righteousness was by means of circumcision and the
law, along with another crazy and bizarre and mystical and allegorical things.
And there were many of them, he says in verse 11. They must be silenced.
They are upsetting whole families. They are teaching things they shouldn't
teach for the sake of sordid gain.
He says further about them in verse 16, they profess to know God but by
their deeds they deny Him, being detestable and disobedient and worthless for
any good deed. And since good deeds are the essence of evangelistic impact,
since that's what demonstrates transformed lives, they can't possibly do that
because their lives haven't been transformed at all. He is deeply concerned
then that these churches on the island of Crete are being assaulted by demon
doctrine, espoused by seducing spirits, pumped out through these rebellious
empty talkers and deceivers who are associated with some kind of legalistic
ceremonial righteousness, rather than the truth of the gospel. They produce
in the church the opposite of what is good and profitable for men, as chapter
3 verse 8 says, they produce what is evil and what is unprofitable.
Chapter 2 carries on the same kind of emphasis when in verse 1 Titus is
told to speak the things which are fitting for sound doctrine. And then at the
end of the chapter in verse 15, to speak and exhort and reprove with all
authority and let no one disregard him. The battle for truth rages in Crete
and Titus must defend the church by building up godly leaders and silencing
false teachers. That is part of his responsibility. And so we know the
background there from chapter 1.
Now go back to chapter 3 verse 9, and here's the last word. The last
word is a verb, it's a verb in the form of an imperative or a command,
shun...shun. The sense here is as a continual practice. The verb literally
means to treat someone with indifference, with contempt, to turn your back on
them and go the other way actually, to turn oneself around for the purpose of
avoiding someone or something. And the responsibility that we have to false
teachers is to turn our back and walk away, shun them. That's the last word.
He categorizes them in four different categories giving us some
components of their error. First of all, he talks about foolish
controversies. The word for foolish is the word from which we get the English
word moron, moronic debates, moronic arguments...shun them, turn your back and
walk the other direction. These false teachers always want to attack the
truth. They always want to attack the theology of the church. They always
want to attack what is historically true and affirmed and traditional. With
their controversial teaching and their novel insights, they want to attack
this solidly based truth and lead poor victimized believers into confusion and
into sin. This was so common in Paul's time, by the way, that he wrote almost
the same kind of thing to Timothy about the same kind of false teaching. And
if you read carefully through 1 Timothy and 2 Timothy, you will hear an echo
of precisely of what you see here in Titus.
For example, 1 Timothy 6:4 talks about false teachers who have morbid
interest in controversial questions and disputes about words which arise out
of...out of which, I should say, arise envy, strife, abusive language, evil
suspicions, constant friction between men of depraved mind and deprived of the
truth. This is nothing new. They would come in and with their novel personal
supposedly scholastic erudite divinely received intuitively ascertained
mystically-gained insights, they would attack the Word of God. What they were
really doing was espousing demon doctrine. They were ignorant, says Paul, in
that passage in 1 Timothy 6, they were untrained, they were ungodly. They
spent senseless hours arguing and debating about their speculations as over
against the truth of God with the purpose of stirring up questions which
cannot be answered, confusion and ultimately defection from the faith. That
kind of teaching, Paul says, eats like gangrene, it makes shipwreck of the
faith. It is devastating. Shun it, that's the last word.
Once it is exposed for what it is and confronted for what it is, you
give it no platform. You do not listen to it as if it were truth being taught
by those who represent God, you turn your back and you walk away.
As I was thinking about that I was meditating on the thought...I wonder
if God is keeping any kind of record of how many hours and how many years and
how many life times of Christians have been lost to real Kingdom purposes, to
real redemptive activity, to real evangelism, discipleship and spiritual
ministry while they debate fools and their lies, often calling it scholarship,
academia when the souls of men go begging to hear the gospel? In 2 Timothy
chapter 2 and verse 14, Paul giving much the same kind of direction to Timothy
says, "Solemnly charge them in the presence of God not to wrangle about words
which is useless and leads to the ruin of the hearers." In verse 16, "Avoid
the worldly and empty chatter, it only leads to further ungodliness." In
verse 14 it leads to ruin, in verse 16 it leads to ungodliness, in verse 17 it
becomes gangrenous. And then down in verse 23, "Refuse foolish and ignorant
speculation, they just produce quarrel." If you want quarrel and diseased
gangrenous kind of error that produces ungodliness and the ruin of its
hearers, then get in a debate with people espousing that which isn't true.
And yet the church has wasted who knows how many countless lives in a debate
with the folly of these kinds of speculations and useless meaningless
controversies. Shun foolish controversies.
The second aspect of this false teaching that he identifies is under the
term "genealogies." You say, "Does that mean we're not supposed to read
certain parts of Genesis? Or we're not supposed to read the genealogy of our
Lord in Matthew or in Luke?" No, of course it doesn't mean that. What it has
to do with was wild allegorical interpretations of Old Testament lists of
names instead of just taking them at historical face value, so-and-so beget
so-and-so, so-and-so beget so-and-so, as giving us a historical line so that
we can draw certain conclusions about God's redemptive unfolding purpose,
instead of looking at those genealogies at their historic face and literal
value, there were those who looked at those and read into them all kinds of
bizarre, wild, crazy, allegorical and mystical interpretations. They're
associated with legends and myths that go along with certain fables, somehow
read into those names of ancestors. Much of the rabbinic Haggada consists of
such rewritten folly. There's an ancient called The Book of Jubilees which
has many of these Jewish allegories and genealogical speculations where
instead of just recognizing the fact that is there, a man is named who beget a
man or whatever, there is read into it some bizarre speculation. And all of a
sudden that secret elevated mystical truth becomes the real truth and they can
spin fables and legends and out of concoct a whole religion that is generated
out of hell itself.
Iraneus tells how ancestral lines of Genesis could be worked into myths.
The early church historian Eusebius said that when the Apostles passed away,
and I quote, "The conspiracy of godless error took its rise through the deceit
of false teachers who endeavored with brazen face to preach their knowledge
falsely so-called in opposition to the preaching of the truth," end quote.
Once the guardians, the Apostles, were gone, this thing escalated. But
it had been around a long, long time. Apparently in Crete some of the same
kind of stuff that was in Ephesus where Timothy was when Paul wrote 1 and 2
Timothy had come to the fore and was attacking the church and needed to be
addressed...fanciful, mystical interpretations that fit only in to the
category of stupid controversy and genealogy.
Thirdly he mentions strife, eris, rivalry, contention. Again this is
reminiscent of 1 Timothy 6, "If anyone advocates...verse 3...a different
doctrine and doesn't agree with sound words, those of our Lord Jesus Christ
and with the doctrine conforming to godliness, he is conceited and understands
nothing but has a morbid interest in disputes out of which arise envy and
strife and abusive language and evil suspicion and constant friction." Just
constant friction and trouble...contention, constantly battling around the
truth, trying to be divisive, conceited, proud men who attack the historic
truth of God's Word and try to stir up battles which eventually are designed
to destroy the confidence, the security, the sense of faith and rest that the
saints have in the truth of Scripture. He says shun all that stuff.
And then he looks at it even in a more specific way in the fourth little
category, disputes about the law...fightings literally about the law. You
remember back in 1 Timothy chapter 1 that the Apostle Paul identifies some
false teachers who wanted to be teachers of the law. They were involved in
fruitless discussion, pointless argument. They wanted to be teachers of the
law but they didn't understand either what they were saying or the matters
about which they were making confident assertions. They were dogmatic about
what they didn't know. Very common, apparently, in those times. They sought
prominence as teachers. They sought by their novel subtleties and their
distorted allegories and their legalism and their mystical interpretations to
be exalted as those who had the elevated kind of knowledge, who had the inside
scoop with God, from it they gained prestige, prominence, sexual favors even
as well as money. They, however, were completely ignorant as the Scripture
points out.
When you come across any of that stuff that attacks the Word of God, any
of these foolish controversies, any of these mystical allegorical
speculations, any of these things that are mere arguments and disputes about
the things of God, he says shun it, turn your back and walk away. The same
demons are behind it all. It is all demonic doctrine espoused by seducing
spirits through hypocritical liars. He says turn your back and walk away.
There is no virtue in staying around to hear what they have to say. It
undermines, it ruins the faith, it eats like gangrene. It leads to
ungodliness.
I don't know how many times that particular emphasis I have repeated
from this pulpit through the years and warned young people as they choose a
college and as they choose a seminary to go to that they make sure they are
not in disobedience to this clear command of the Word of God. Because they'll
go there and what will occur will be the very promised devastation. Don't
descend to the level of their ignorance by bickering and arguing with them.
Show the error, understand the error, go on to proclaim the truth...truth such
as we studied last time in verses 4 through 7. Anybody who attacks that isn't
worthy of being heard. Both the doctrinal errors and just the format of
endless bickering is a waste of time and a waste of energy that distresses
Paul.
I can remember having a conversation with one of the professors at the
Master's Seminary who said to me, "I came here because I wanted to train men
in the Word of God for ministry, not argue with people who taught error." The
positive approach is what the Scripture calls for.
So, the last word then from Paul on false teachers is shun. Secondly,
on factious people...what's the last word? Verses 10 and 11, "Reject a
factious man after a first and second warning knowing that such a man is
perverted and is sinning, being self-condemned." Now this certainly could
refer to those who teach unsound doctrine because they would be factious, that
is divisive. They would separate. They would be a problem in the church.
They would be a sectarian influence. But really it's beyond that. It goes
beyond those who would engage in some wrong doctrine, those who would split
the church over a doctrinal issue, it doesn't confine itself to that, it's
anybody who tends to divide, to fracture the fellowship, to tear the seamless
robe, as it were, of the garment of the unity of the church. The church, as
you well know, has always struggled against false doctrine and always
struggled to maintain unity. It will always be assaulted by people
propagating lies and it will always be assaulted by people who try to divide
it.
Truth in unity is the stock and trade of the church's evangelism. Sound
doctrine and love expressed is what is our message. What makes our sound
doctrine believable is the integrity of our unity as Jesus made so very clear
in the time He spoke to His disciples in John 13 and said, "By this will all
men know that you're My disciples if you have love one for another." So the
church has not only always struggled against error, it has struggled against
discord, division. You remember Paul wrote 1 Corinthians and the first
several chapters clear into chapter 4 are all about trying to bring to that
church the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. After all, there is one
God, there is one Lord, one faith, one baptism...we, Jesus prayed, would be
one and we are in essence. We've all been baptized in to one body through the
agency of the Holy Spirit, have all been made to drink of the same Spirit,
there is a spiritual unity but there needs to be a real and visible one as
well. We are called sacrificially to love each other.
In that 1 Corinthian epistle, chapter 1, I think Paul sums it up in
verses 10 and following, " I exhort you, brethren, by the name of our Lord
Jesus Christ that you all agree and there be no division among you but you be
made complete in the same mind and in the same judgment. I have been
informed, concerning you, my brethren, by Chloe's people that there are
quarrels among you. Has Christ been divided?"
It was that very desire for unity that prompted him to write to the
Philippians, only conduct yourselves, chapter 1 verse 27, in a manner worthy
of the gospel of Christ, so that whether I come and see you or remain absent I
may hear of you that you are striving together, standing firm in one spirit
for the faith of the gospel. The unity of the church, absolutely crucial.
And that is that to which Paul addresses his attention in this second
category. There are some people in the life of the church who are factious.
They disrupt. They bring discord. They're divisive. Any of us at any point
could do that if we're in sin. The term here for a factious man is hairetikos
from which eventually our English transliteration heretic came. The term heretic
to us means an apostate, someone who teaches something other than sound
doctrine, someone who rejects the truth. We usually think of it in a
doctrinal sense. And by the second century hairetikos had come to mean a
heretic, or an apostate. But at this time those who study the Greek language
tell us that the word really did not have that kind of connotation. It came from the
Greek verb hairetomi which simply means to choose, or to prefer...to take
for oneself.
It could refer to the particular group that a person chose to belong to.
It wouldn't necessarily have been a bad one. For example, it is used
throughout the book of Acts and translated the sect of the Pharisees. It is
even used in the book of Acts with reference to the sect called Christianity.
It simply means a group, a choice. But we start to see its bad connotation,
for example, in Galatians 5:20 where it is translated factions and it is shown
as one of the expressions of the flesh, the unregenerate wicked fallen flesh.
Summing it up, it had the idea of someone who makes a resolute choice.
It then started to mean someone whose choice is obstinate and against the
truth. It is used here to mean one who had chosen an idea, one who had chosen
a teaching, a doctrine, a viewpoint, a perspective, a course of behavior that
was not acceptable to the church. It was not acceptable to the Word of God or
it was not acceptable to the mind of the Spirit as revealed through the
leadership. Literally, one who chooses for himself, he will not become a part
of the consensus. He will not submit to the Word. He will not submit to the
leadership. He will not become a part of that which is the mind of the Spirit
revealed through the elders.
And later, as I said, by the second century it comes all the way to
meaning a heretic and an apostate. But here we have someone who has chosen
some unbiblical, some unacceptable way and he's gathering adherents and he's
causing strife and division and factions in the church and will not move in to
the area where truth resides and the testimony of the Spirit leads.
Lenski, the commentator, writes, "This person chooses for himself what
the church by choosing the scripture must repudiate and disdain." So he
stands against the truth and against the leadership of the church and against
the will of the Spirit. He may be holding some novel interpretation, some
novel myth, some genealogical extrapolation or mystical interpretation. He
may be holding some ignorant interpretation of Scripture. He may be also
holding some course of action, some personal whim, some personal preference
about behavior or conduct or whatever. The issue is he's divisive.
What do we do? The verb says reject. Reject, that's the last word.
Have nothing to do with them. Reject. Don't have anything to do with them.
It's very much like Matthew 18:17, "Let him be to you as a pagan and an
outcast." Cut him off from the fellowship. In 2 Thessalonians 3 verse 14,
"If anyone doesn't obey our instruction in this letter, take special note of
that man, do not associate with him so that he may be put to shame. Do not
regard him as an enemy but admonish him as a brother." You know he belongs in
the family of God, you assume that, and he's in sin. Remember that he is a
brother, don't treat him like an enemy but do not associate with him. Don't
have fellowship, don't have a meal, don't make it easy for him to feel
comfortable so that he may be shamed by being put away from the accepted
fellowship.
And this is really church discipline. In fact, look at verse 10, it
says, "You don't even do this unless you have had a first and second warning."
You're following here the process of Matthew chapter 18. You go to him, he
doesn't repent. You go with two or three, he doesn't repent. Now you tell
the whole church and then you treat him as an outcast. Reject him after
properly going several times to warn him. Why? Because it isn't that you
want to put him out, you want him to repent. It's always true that church
discipline is remedial, it is restorative, it is redemptive. And so you want
to go to this individual before you have to turn him over to Satan that he
might learn not to blaspheme. Before you have to turn him over to Satan such
as 1 Corinthians 5 for the instruction of the flesh that the spirit may be
saved, before you have to cut him off from fellowship, you want to be gentle.
And Paul says in 2 Timothy 2:25 you want to be gentle, you want to instruct
him with gentleness. Perhaps God will grant him repentance and he'll come to
the knowledge of the truth on this issue and you will have gained your
brother. So you go through a process of admonishing. The word warning here
comes from the Greek verb noutheteo, we use that word "neuthetic"(?) to speak
about counseling. It is a gentle kind of warning telling someone you better
change the direction because the end of your course is dangerous, tragic,
chastening, judgment of God.
So you go through a warning process. You go graciously to this
individual, realizing he is a brother, and you call him to repentance. In
Romans chapter 16 verses 17 and 18 Paul says, "I urge you, brethren, to keep
your eye on those who cause dissensions and hindrances contrary to the
teaching which you learned and turn away from them for they're not truly
slaves of the Lord Jesus Christ but of their own appetites. And by their
smooth and flattering speech they deceive the hearts of the unsuspecting."
Turn away from them. Where you find a factious divisive person who is
propagating error on the one point or standing in the way of the unity of the
church on some personal matter, turn your back, reject them, treat them like
an outcast, don't fellowship with them, don't let them be a part so that they
can be shamed and learn they can't do that.
Boy, it would sure change the complexion of the church today if the
church would rise to that level, wouldn't it? We've got people running loose
espousing all kinds of bizarre mystical stuff, all kinds of unbiblical stuff
and we have a tendency in the church in the name of unity which is just the
opposite of true unity to not only allow them but to give them platform and
honor them. And what he's saying here, this same verb, reject, is translated
in 1 Timothy 4:7 "have nothing to do with....have nothing to do with." Often
it's translated such as 1 Timothy 5:11, Hebrews 12, "Refuse." The last word
on divisive people is refuse them.
You say, "Well we're trying to get unity. Does unity do that?" Yes,
unity does that because unity demands that we are united around the truth of
the Word of God and the mind of the Spirit. Doing this should be easy because
of what we know, verse 11, "Knowing," that's oida, that word tends to
mean...it becomes clear to everybody, it's observable..."knowing that such a
man is perverted and is sinning...being self-condemned." I mean, it would
seem obvious to do that because it should be obvious to all of us that someone
who has made his choice to stand pat and is divisive about some teaching or
some matter of behavior or choice is perverted. We ought to put him away. We
ought to keep him at arm's length. We ought to reject that individual because
it should be apparent to everybody by observation that his character is
revealed by his stubborn hard heart, he is perverted. That is a very strong
usage of a strong term. It literally means turned inside out. It could be
translated distorted, twisted. It is used in medical literature and
translated dislocated.
Here is a dislocated distorted twisted perverted inside-out individual.
He has the truth. He has been told the truth. He's been warned again and
again. This isn't some pagan who never heard. This isn't some individual who
doesn't know the truth and doesn't know what is desired and what the mind of
the Spirit is. But he's a perverted individual and is sinning...he is
sinning. That's willful sin in the present tense. He's guilty of continuing
in a course of belief and teaching and attitude and action, contrary to the
Word and the will of God. Put him out. Reject him. He is self-condemned.
It ought to be apparent to everybody he's condemned himself by his
error...katakrino, strong word meaning condemned. And this man is
autokatakrino, self-condemned. He's passing judgment on his own perversion by
the way he's acting.
There are people today who teach error, who live ungodly, who carry
unholy attitudes who are self-willed, divisive both in local churches and in a
wider sense of area of influence. And rather than being rejected, they're
allowed to maintain their profile in the local church or in the greater
assembly of the body of Christ, they're tolerated, they're often even
respected and given a platform for their aberrations. The last word on false
teachers is shun. The last word on factious people is reject.
Well now we come to a much nicer group as we come to a close. Just
briefly look at this, the third group, fellow servants. We turn to the
positive. Moving from the self-condemned who are to be rejected and the false
teachers who are to be shunned, we come to those who bless our lives. And
Paul by means of personal words here gives us some final helpful thoughts on
relations with Christians. Verse 12, "When I send Artemas or Tychicus to you,
make every effort to come to me at Nicopolis for I've decided to spend the
winter there. Diligently help Zenas the lawyer and Apollos on their way so
that nothing is lacking for them."
Now this appears to be directed at Titus. And it is Titus'
responsibility to take care of fellow servants, Aretemas, Tychicus, Zenas,
Apollos, Titus, really they're all in the service of the Lord. They're all
sort of fellow servants working under the direct leadership of the wonderful
Apostle Paul. He's the general who moves his troops around to satisfy the
strategies that the Spirit has revealed to him for the spiritual battle. And
so here Paul tells Titus particularly that he wants him to tend to the care of
these fellow servants. There's a certain camaraderie at that level that is
wonderful, blessed.
So he says when...now we don't know when he did this. We know that he
very likely did it because as we shall see, Titus did leave Crete and Paul
wouldn't have left them without someone to be in charge. So he says when I
send Artemas or Tychicus, we don't know when that was going to be, at the time
he didn't know. And secondly, he didn't know who he was going to send.
Artemas perhaps was available and Tychicus was available but some time I'm
going to send one of those two guys.
We don't know anything about Aretemas, absolutely nothing at all. He is
mentioned here and he must have been a formidable servant of the Lord to take
on such a task as the task of setting things in order and making sure the
leadership of the churches of Crete were what they should be...that formidable
task wouldn't be given to a man with weak gifts or character, so he must have
been a wonderful man. We don't know anything about him.
And then there was Tychicus, a man more familiar to us. He accompanied
Paul on the missionary journey from Corinth to Asia Minor recorded there in
Acts chapter 20. He was the man who delivered the Ephesian letter and the
Colossian letter, probably at the same time. He is described in some very
glowing terms in Colossians 4:7 as a beloved brother, a faithful servant and a
fellow bondservant in the Lord. Paul so describes him. He is also mentioned
at the end of Ephesians, chapter 6 verse 21. And 2 Timothy 4 indicates that
he was sent to Ephesus to replace Timothy. So he was a formidable guy. He
replaced Timothy and here it may be that he replaces even Titus...one of
Paul's most devoted trusted fellow servants.
So he says, "When I send either Artemas or Tychicus to you, make every
effort to come to me at Nicopolis." In other words, one of these men is going
to come and take your place and I want you to come and be with me. I want to
spend some time with you. Where is Nicopolis? Well, historian Zahn tells us
there were probably nine cities named Nicopolis. It's from two words, polis
means city, nike from which we get Nike, we think of shoes and rockets, nike
was the word for victor or victory, conquer. And every time great generals
won great battles, they wanted to memorialize their triumphs. And one of the
ways they did this was to plant cities that were called Nicopolis, victory
town. The victory town that he is referring to here, no doubt, is the one on
the coast of Epiris(?) a commercial seaport, a Roman colony which by the way
was founded by Octavian, later known as Augustus after his battle in 31 B.C.
at Atrium when he defeated Marc Antony and Cleopatra.
And so Paul was going to go there for the winter and he wanted to send
somebody to replace Titus so Titus could come and be with him. Paul wanted
some more input with Titus, not only did he want fellowship but he knew his
end was near, he only has one more letter to write, even though, by the way,
he's still free or he couldn't have decided to go to Nicopolis on his own. He
hasn't been taken prisoner yet. He knows that his life is fast ending and
this young man Titus is crucial. He's somewhere in Macedonia, maybe in
Philippi when he writes. Macedonia and Crete would be equal distance from
where this city of Nicopolis is, it would be a good median meeting point.
It's also a wonderful launching place to go into Dalmatia and Titus did go in
to Dalmatia, 2 Timothy 4:10 says, which you will be interested to know is
modern day Yugoslavia, now Croatia and Serbia in that part of the world.
So he said...Look, I'm going to send somebody. I want you to come. I
want to spend some time with you. I'm going to be in Nicopolis to spend the
winter there.
Then he says in verse 13, "Diligently help Zenas the lawyer and Apollos
on their way so that nothing is lacking for them." You're going to have two
other gentlemen that are going to come your way...Zenas the lawyer. We don't
know anything about him. In fact, we don't even know what kind of lawyer he
was. And by that I don't mean was he a good one or a bad one, we assume he
was a good one because he was serving the Lord, ministering alongside Paul.
What we don't know is whether he was a Jewish law expert or a Roman litigator.
Some people say he must have been a Roman litigator because he has a Roman
name. Well a lot of people had Roman and Greek names who were Jews, including
Paul. So that doesn't tell us anything, we just don't know. He, by the way,
is the only Christian lawyer mentioned in Scripture...for what it's worth.
Apollos we do know about. Apollos who was apparently going to be with
him was the eloquent Jewish preacher from Alexandra who was mighty in the
scriptures, it says in Acts 18. He was the man who knew only about the
baptism of John the Baptist and he was a great preacher of the Old Testament.
He came to Ephesus and Aquila and Priscilla, instructed him in the way. He
later worked at Corinth. Was blessed by the Lord. He became a partner of
Paul. He had a tremendous ministry in the Corinthian church.
So he says to him Zenas is coming, Apollos is coming on their way. On
their way where? We don't know. They were on some missionary enterprise.
Again Paul the general is moving his troops. And when they come, no doubt they
had this letter for Titus. No doubt they are the bearers of this epistle, but
he says to them, "When they come by you on their way, you make sure they're
not lacking anything, meet their need." Whether it's spiritual,
encouragement, whether it's material, whatever it might be, food, housing, you
take care of them. They're on a mission activity.
What all of this says is, "You're part of a team. These guys are going
there and you're coming here and you do this and we'll do this and this is the
plan." And this is the whole concept of how fellow servants should function
as a team. We can only wish that were more true than it is, right? That the
leadership of the church would be more devoted to each other. We're talking
about fellow servants. "Titus, you have a responsibility to me, the time is
going to come when you leave there and come to me. Titus, you have a
responsibility to these two men who are your fellow servants to make sure all
their needs are met as they carry on to their destination for the cause of the
Kingdom. I want you to diligently help them on their way." That word
diligently means eagerly, earnestly, passionately. You're a part of a team,
we're all inter-dependent, we need to be supportive and trusting and
delegating. We all share. We move to assist each other, what's ever best for
the cause. That's a very important thing in spiritual leadership.
Through the years I've watched young men rise up in this congregation
and inevitably they'll come to me some day and say, "I feel God has called me
to another place." And there's something in my heart that says I don't want
you to go but something else says but we're a team and the commander-in-chief
says you go and you go. And that's how the Kingdom works. And that's how the
team is.
There are times when a pastor will call me on the phone and say, "Will
you come and minister in my place, in my church." And I'm always pulled in my
heart to do that because I want to help him on his way. I want to minister.
I want to strengthen his hand. I want to encourage his people. I want to do
whatever I can. And if I can go somewhere in the world and get a group of
pastors together and have some influence in their life, that's a very
important thing to me because I'm a part of a team of fellow servants who
serve the King all over the world. And wherever that team needs me to
participate and to share, that's where I want to be.
There's a sense, and I think you know this, I certainly believe you do
as a church, that while I serve a local congregation, I'm a part of something
that is beyond just this local congregation, that God has put me on a team of
fellow servants all across this world that are involved in the enterprise of
the advancement of His Kingdom. And there are times when my role as a team
player calls me to another place. And some other team player comes and
perhaps stands in my place here. But that's how it is as fellow servants. We
want to do everything we can to make sure that we diligently help each other
on the way so that nothing is lacking for them. That's just crucial.
And what a privilege it is. Whenever I'm asked to go, particularly to
help another pastor, another spiritual leader, my heart is pulled to that
because I want to strengthen them in any way and every way I can.
The last word on false teachers, shun. The last word on factious
people, reject. The last word on fellow servants, help...help, diligently
help.
And then group four. The last word on faithful friends. Verse 14, "And
let our people also learn to engage in good deeds, to meet pressing needs that
they may not be unfruitful." Now we come right down to the congregation
level. Titus, he says, tell everybody to help each other. Paul turns here to
the people, the congregation, you need to learn to engage in good deeds. Now
he's been saying that all through this letter...all through this letter.
Verse 1 chapter 3, be ready for every good deed. Verse 8, be careful to
engage in good deeds. Verse 12 of chapter 2, denying ungodliness and worldly
desires, to live sensibly, righteously and godly in this present age. Why?
Verse 14, because God is purifying for Himself a people for His own
possessions zealous for good deeds. Tell the whole congregation to learn to
engage in good deeds to meet pressing needs.
What do you mean? To just love each other, urgent needs, life is full
of them, isn't it? It's by our love that they know who we are, particularly
in the flock of God in order that they may not be unfruitful. Why? Because
an unfruitful life is not a good testimony to the saving power of God, is it?
People need to be able to look and see the fruit so that their lives are
blessed and witnesses of God's saving power and God's grace, so that their
light so shines that men may see their good works and glorify their Father who
is in heaven, Matthew 5:16. This is the heart of our witness. This is the
heart of our life. The last word on relationships between all of you is that
you learn to do good deeds to meet pressing needs. Pour your life in to each
other so that you'll be full of fruit and the world will know you by that.
And then talks about the glue that holds it all together in verse 15.
"All who are with me greet you. Greet those who love us faithfully, grace be
with you all." He says everybody over here greets you, would you please greet
those who love us faithfully?
That's really the essence of verse 14. People will engage in good deeds
to meet pressing needs when they faithfully love each other. Paul says, "I've
got a group of folks over here who love you, I know you've got a group of
folks over there who love us faithfully." That's the essence of it.
The final word for faithful friends is love. Love that engages in good
deeds to meet pressing needs.
You say, "I thought this was an evangelistic epistle." It is. It's an
evangelistic epistle. My goodness, verse 11 of chapter 2, "The grace of God
has appeared bringing salvation to all men." Chapter 3, "He saved us not on
the basis of deeds which we have done..." and so forth. It's all about
salvation. It's an evangelistic epistle.
But the key to evangelism is right relationships. That involves
shunning false teachers, rejecting factious people. It involves helping
fellow servants and loving faithful friends. You see, the whole thing in
evangelism, the whole credibility issue is built on the character of our
lives. And the only way to pull this off is his final conclusion, "Grace be
with you all." Apart from God's grace it can't happen. By His grace it can.
Father, we know that when the church is marked by truth and unity and
loyal leadership and caring love, people are going to believe that You save
sinners because they don't know anything about that. They don't know about
truth or unity or loyal service or sacrificial love, they don't know anything
about it. It doesn't come from man. If they see it in us they'll know You've
touched our lives. Thank You for all that You've taught us this morning and
throughout this wonderful epistle and may, Lord, the things we've heard be
pressed to our heart by the convicting of the Holy Spirit who gives us no rest
until we faithfully willingly submit to live according to the truth we've
heard. We live in the midst of a dying world, a pagan culture under the wrath
of God. The task of reaching them is so massive and, Lord, we could become
frustrated and intimidated and discouraged were it not for the fact that Your
grace is with us to ennoble us to be what we need to be what we need to be.
Help us to think purely and biblically and to stay committed to truth and
unity, committed to all those who are loyal to You, pastors and leaders across
this world, to strengthen one another at that level and as well to be marked
by sacrificial love as a people so that people will know that God saves
sinners, that Christ saves sinners. That's our prayer. And then when the
opportunity comes to speak the truth, their hearts will be open to receive it.
Use us in that very way, we pray in Christ's name. Amen.
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